PFLAG Library

5/06/2008

1. Lesbian & Gay Psychology Beverly Greene/Gregory M. Herek

Lesbians — Psychology

Gay men — Psychology

2. Counseling Lesbian Women & Gay Men A. Elfin Moses/Robert O. Hawkins Jr.

3. The Other side of the closet: the coming-out crisis for straight spouses Amity Pierce Buxton Ph D.

Bisexuality in marriage — United States

Coming out (Sexual orientation) — United States

Homosexuality — United States

Married people — United States — Psychology

4. The Men with the pink triangle: the true, life- and death story of homosexuals in the Nazi death camps Heinz Heger

Gay men — Germany — Biography

Male homosexuality — Germany — History — 1933-1945

Concentration camps — Germany — History — 1933-1945

(Nazi Germany concentration camps)

5. Gay Lesbian liberation George R. Edwards

Homosexuality — Religious aspects — Christianity

Homosexuality — Biblical teaching

Liberation theology)

6. The straight Person’s guide to gay people’s anguish J. Castiglione

(Catholic gay man’s perspective)

7. Long Road to Freedom Mark Thompson/Randy Shilts Advocate (Los Angeles, Calif.) — History

Gay liberation movement — United States — History Gay men — United States — History

Gay men — United States — Social conditions — 20th century

Lesbians — United States — History

Lesbians — United States — Social conditions — 20th century

(we have 2 books)

8. Chastity Bono “Family Outing” Chastity Bono / B. Fitzpatrick

Coming out (Sexual orientation) — United States

Gay men — Family relationships — United States

Lesbians — Family relationships — United States

Heterosexual parents — United States — Attitudes

(Sonny & Cher’s daughter’s story)

9. Beyond acceptance: parents of lesbians and gays talk about their experiences Carolyn Welch Griffin/Marian Wirth/Arthur G. Wirth

Homosexuality — United States

Gays — Family relationships — United States

Parent and child — United States

(Parents talk of acceptance)

10. Sexual Orientation & Identity Heather Wishik & Carol Pierce

11. In Quiet Desperation Fred & Marilyn Matis/Ty Mansfield

(Understanding the challenge of same gender attraction) religious views

12. And the Band Played on Randy Shilts

AIDS (Disease) — Political aspects — United States

AIDS (Disease) — Social aspects — United States

AIDS (Disease) — United States — History

Gay men — United States — Social conditions

Gay men — United States — History

Gay men — Health and hygiene — United States — History

13. Gay Issues in the work place Brian McNaught

14. Contested Closets: the politics and ethics of outing Larry Gross

Gay liberation movement — United States

Homosexuality — Moral and ethical aspects

Outing (Sexual orientation) — United States

15. Human Sexuality Catholic Church dogma (I would not recommend)

16. 100 Best companies for Gay Men and Lesbians Ed Mickens

17. Outing yourself: how to come out as lesbian or gay to your family, friends, and coworkers Michelangelo Signorile

Coming out (Sexual orientation) — United States

Gay men — Family relationships — United States

Lesbians — Family relationships — United States

Gay men — United States — Social conditions

Lesbians — United States — Social conditions

18. Beyond Queer Bruce Bawer (Editor)

19. A special agent: gay and inside the FBI Frank Buttino

Buttino, Frank

United States. Federal Bureau of Investigation — Officials and employees — Biography

Gay men — United States — Biography

Being gay inside the FBI memoir

(we have 2 books)

20. Positively gay : new approaches in gay and lesbian life to: family relationships, mental health, religion, couple, aging, job security, financial planning, political organizing and more : featuring the Positively gay discussion guide Betty Berzon PhD. (Editor)

Gay men — United States — Social conditions — 20th century

Lesbians — United States — Social conditions — 20th century

self help

21. Stranger at the Gate: to be gay and Christian in America Mel White

White, Mel, 1940-

Universal Fellowship of Metropolitan Community Churches — Clergy — Biography

Gay men — Religious life — United States

Homosexuality — Religious aspects — Christianity

Evangelicalism — United States

Conservatism — Religious aspects — Christianity

United States — Moral conditions

(we have 2 books)

22. Love makes a family: portraits of lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender parents and their families Peggy Gillespie (Editor)

SUMMARY This volume combines interview and photographs to document the experiences of lesbian , gay, bisexual, and transgender parents and their children. It allow all of the family members to speak candidly about their lives, their relationships, and the ways in which they have dealt with the pressures of homophobia. Included in the book are people from diverse racial, ethnic, and economic backgrounds, representing a wide range of family structures. Together, they provide clear evidence that family roles and responsibilities need not be based on gender, and that children thrive in an atmosphere in which understanding, respect, and love transcend the prejudices of the day.

SUBJECT(S)

Gay fathers — Interviews

Gay fathers — Portraits

Lesbian mothers — Interviews

Lesbian mothers — Portraits

Bisexual parents — Interviews

Bisexual parents — Portraits

Transsexual parents — Interviews

Transsexual parents — Portraits

Children of gay parents — Interviews

Children of gay parents — Portraits

23. Coming out: an act of love Rob Eichberg Ph D.

Gays — United States — Correspondence

Gays — Family relationships — United States — Case studies

Interpersonal relations — Case studies

Coming out (Sexual orientation) — Case studies

24. What if someone I know is gay?: answers to questions about what it means to be gay and lesbian Eric Marcus

SUMMARY Offers answers to questions young readers might ask about gay people, whether those questions concern a friend, a family member, or themselves

CONTENTS Basic stuff — Friends and family — Dating, marriage, and kids — Sex — God and religion — School — Parades, activism, and discrimination

SUBJECT(S)

Homosexuality

Lesbianism

Gay couples

25. Looking at Gay and Lesbian life Warren J. Blumenfeld/Diane Raymond

CONTENTS Socialization and gender roles — Sexuality — What causes homosexuality? — Sexuality and the heritage of Western religion — Prejudice and discrimination — History of Lesbian and Gay Movement politics — Politics in the AIDS era — Lifestyle and culture

SUBJECT(S)

Homosexuality — United States

26. My Son Eric Mary Borhek

Gay teenagers — Family relationships — United States

Gay men — Family relationships — United States

Parents of gays — Family relationships — United States

Mother’s struggle

27. After Midnight (Life & Death of Brad Davis) Susan B. Davis

Memoirs of living with HIV

28. Family values: two moms and their son Phyllis Burke

Lesbian mothers — California — San Francisco

Lesbian couples — California — San Francisco Children of gay parents — California — San Francisco

29. Coming out to parents: a two-way survival guide for lesbians and gay men and their parents Mary Borhek

Lesbians — Family relationships

Gay men — Family relationships

Parent and child

Adult children

30. The Preacher’s son Marc Adams

31. Aids & The Healer within Nick Bandforth

32. Being homosexual : gay men and their development Richard H. Isay M.D.

CONTENTS What is homosexuality? — Childhood and early homosexual identity — Fathers and their homosexual sons in childhood — Adolescence and young adulthood of gay men — AIDS: the development of healthy gay men and homophobia — Lovers and others: gay relationships — The homoerotic fantasy of heterosexual men and the question of bisexuality — Psychotherapy with gay men — Society and gay men

SUBJECT(S)

Homosexuality

Gay men — Psychology

Psychosexual development

Gay men — Sexual behavior

33. The silence of Sodom : homosexuality in modern Catholicism Mark D. Jordan

Catholic Church — Doctrines

Homosexuality — Religious aspects — Catholic Church

34. Aids a Self Care Manual Betty Moffatt M.A./Judith Spiegel /SteveParrish/Michael Helquist

35. Lesbian and gay marriage: private commitments, public ceremonies Suzanne Sherman

Gay couples — United States

Lesbian couples — United States

Same-sex marriage

Homosexuality — Religious aspects

Weddings — United States

36. Side by Side Isabel Miller

Novel about Stonewall

37. After the Ball: How America will conquer it’s fear & hatred of Gays in the 90’s Marshall Kirk& Hunter Madsen

Gay liberation movement — United States

Gays — United States — Public opinion

Homophobia — United States

Public opinion — United States

38. Virtually Normal Andrew Sullivan

Homosexuality

(self help)

39. Straight jobs, gay lives : gay and lesbian professionals, the Harvard Business School, and the American workplace Annette Friskop/ Sharon Silverstein

Harvard University. Graduate School of Business Administration — Students — Employment — Case studies

Harvard University. Graduate School of Business Administration

Gays — Employment — United States

Business students — Employment — United States

Gays — United States — Interviews

Business students — United States — Interviews

Professional employees — United States — Interviews

Gays — Employment — United States — Handbooks, manuals, etc

(we have 2 books)

40. Gay Body, a journey through shadow to self Mark Thompson

autobiographical self help

41. Billy’s Boy Patricia Nell Warren

Gay teenagers — Fiction

Teenage boys — Fiction

Lesbian mothers — Fiction

A novel

42. Making history : the struggle for gay and lesbian equal rights, 1945-1990 : an oral history Eric Marcus

Gay liberation movement — United States — History

Gays — United States

Lesbians — United States

(we have 2 books)

43. The Front Runner Patricia Nell Warren

Gay men — Fiction

Runners (Sports) — Fiction

Track and field coaches — Fiction

Love stories

A novel

44. Risky Sex Gay Men and HIV Prevention Dwayne C. Turne

Gay men — Sexual behavior — California — West Hollywood

Safe sex in AIDS prevention — California — West Hollywood

45. Stonewall Martin Duberman

Stonewall Riots, New York, N.Y., 1969

Gay liberation movement — United States — History

Gay men — United States — History

Lesbians — United States – History

46. Families like mine: children of gay parents tell it like it is Abigail Garner

Children of Gay Parents

47. Homophobia: How we all pay the price Warren Blumenfeld

Homophobia — United States.

Sexism — United States.

Essays

48. Loving Someone Gay Don Clark Ph D.

Male homosexuality — United States.

Gay men — United States — Family relationships.

self help

(we have 3 books)

49. Coming Out under fire Allan Berube

United States — Armed Forces — History — World War, 1939-1945

Gays in the military — United States — History — 20th century

Gays — United States — History — 20th century

(History WWII)

50. Out of the closets into our hearts Caitlin Ryan & Donna Futterman

Lesbian and Gay youth

51. Same Sex Marriage Pro & Con Andrew Sullivan (Editor)

CONTENTS For the first time ever? Same-sex marriage in history — In God’s name? The religious war continues — Is it so ordered? The path of the courts — Why marry? The debate on the Left — How conservative a project? The debate on the Right — Defense of marriage act? The national debate begins — Not in front of the children? Same-sex marriage and parenthood — Slippery slope? The polygamy and adultery debate — Whose life is it anyway? The real world of love and marriage — Federal marriage amendment? The future of the legal and political battle.

SUBJECT(S)

Same-sex marriage.

Homosexuality — Religious aspects.

Gay couples — Legal status, laws, etc.

52. Now that You Know Betty Fairchild & Nancy Hayward FULL TITLE?

53. Ceremonies of the Heart Becky Butler

Lesbian couples — United States.

Same-sex marriage — United States.

Weddings — United States.

Lesbianism — History.

54. The Bisexual Option Fritz Klein M.D.

Bisexuality — United States

Sex (Psychology)

Sex customs — United States

55. Wrestling with the Angel: faith and religion in the lives of gay men Brian Bouldrey (Editor)

Homosexuality — Religious aspects — Christianity

Homosexuality — Religious aspects — Judaism

Homosexuality — Religious aspects

Gay men — Religious life — United States

56. Friendship chronicles : letters between a gay and a straight man Chris Hassett & Tom Owen Towle

Hassett, Chris — Correspondence.

Owen-Towle, Tom. — Correspondence.

Gay men — United States — Correspondence.

Heterosexual men — United States — Correspondence.

Male friendship — United States.

(we have 2 books)

57. Take these broken wings and learn to fly : the support book for patients, family, and friends living with AIDS Steven Dietz/M Jane Parker Hicks M.D.

AIDS (Disease) — Handbooks, manuals, etc.

AIDS (Disease) — Psychological aspects — Handbooks, manuals, etc.

AIDS (Disease) — Patients — Rehabilitation — Handbooks, manuals, etc.

58. A Member of the family : gay men write about their families John Preston(Editor)

Gay men — United States — Family relationships.

Gay community — United States.

59. Familiar faces, hidden lives : the story of homosexual men in America today Howard Brown M.D.

Gay men — United States — Biography

Gay liberation movement — United States Homosexuality, Male — United States — Case studies

60. Coming out as parents : you and your homosexual child David K. Switze

Parents of gays.

Gays — Family relationships.

Parent and child.

Homosexuality — Religious aspects — Christianity.

Parenting — Religious aspects — Christianity.

61. The rights of lesbians and gay men : the basic ACLU guide to a gay person’s rights Nan D. Hunter/Sherryl Michaelson/T. Stoddard

Gay rights — United States

Homosexuality — Law and legislation — United States

(ACLU writing)

62. Come home! : reclaiming spirituality and community as gay men and lesbians Chris Glasen

Gays — Religious life.

Homosexuality — Religious aspects — Christianity. 63. Gay American History Jonathan Katz

64. A Journey to Moriah Rhea Murray/Gary Pool

Murray, Rhea.

Parents of gays — Indiana.

Gay teenagers — Family relationships.

Mothers and sons.

Christian gays.

Homophobia in education.

(A mother’s true story)

65. Before Stonewall Andrea Weisss/Greta Schiller

66. The journey out : a guide for and about lesbian, gay and bisexual teens Rachel Pollack/Cheryl Schwartz

SUMMARY Suggests how gay, lesbian, and bisexual teenagers may discover their sexual orientation, find self-acceptance, come out, cope with prejudice, and deal with religious and political issues.

Gay teenagers — United States — Juvenile literature.

Lesbian teenagers — United States — Juvenile literature.

Bisexuals — United States — Juvenile literature.

Coming out (Sexual orientation) — United States — Juvenile literature.

Homosexuality.

67. Born Gay Jan Phillips

Lesbian reflections

68. The science of desire : the search for the gay gene and the biology of behavior Dean Hamer/Peter Copeland

Homosexuality — Genetic aspects.

Behavior genetics.

Sex-linkage (Genetics)

Sociobiology.

Sexual orientation.

69. Prayers for Bobby : a mother’s coming to terms with the suicide of her gay son Leroy Aarons

Griffith, Robert Warren, 1963-1983.

Griffith, Mary, 1934-

Parents & Friends of Lesbians and Gays.

Gay men — United States — Diaries.

Gay men — Suicidal behavior — United States.

Gay men — United States — Family relationships.

Parents of gays — United States.

Homosexuality — United States — Religious aspects — Christianity.

Fundamentalism — United States.

Homophobia — United States — Religious aspects.

70. Gay men : the sociology of male homosexuality Martin P. Levine (Editor)

Gay men — United States.

Subculture.

71. Homophobia a Weapon of Sexism Suzanne Pharr

Homophobia — United States

Heterosexism — United States

Lesbianism — United States

72. Too High a Price ACLU

case against restricting gay parenting

73. Created Equal: Why Gay rights Matter to America Michael Nava/Robert Davidoff

Gays — United States.

Gay rights — United States.

(we have 2 books)

74. Naming the violence : speaking out about lesbian battering Kerry Lobel (Editor)

Abused lesbians — United States

Lesbians — United States — Psychology

75. Good Bye I Love You Carolyn Pearson

Pearson, Carol Lynn — Biography.

Authors, American — 20th century — Biography

Gays — Family relationships.

AIDS (Disease) — Patients — Biography.

(true story of Mormon wife-homosexual husband)

76. A couple of friends : the remarkable friendship between straight women and gay men Robert Hopcke/Laura Rafaty

Gay men — Relations with heterosexual women — United States

77. My country, my right to serve : experiences of gay men and women in the military, World War II to the present Mary Ann Humphrey

Gay soldiers — United States — Personal narratives. henn

Lesbian soldiers — United States — Personal narratives. henn

Homophobia in the Armed Forces — Personal narratives. henn

Gays in the military — United States.

78. Understanding Homosexuality : a text for teachers, counselors, and administrators Arthur Lipkin

Homosexuality and education — United States.

Homophobia — United States.

Sexual orientation — United States.

Discrimination in education — United States.

School violence — United States.

Sex instruction for children — United States.

Sex instruction for teenagers — United States.

Homosexuality — Social aspects — Study and teaching — United States.

Gay students — United States.

Gay teachers — United States.

Homophobia in education. henn

Violence against gay men and lesbians.

79. Serving in Silence Margaret Cammermeyer/Chris Fisher

Cammermeyer, Margarethe, 1942-

Lesbians — United States — Biography.

Women soldiers — United States — Biography.

Nurses — United States — Biography.

Gays in the military — United States.

80. Straight talk about Gays in the workplace Liz Winfeld/Susan Spielman

Homosexuality in the workplace

Gays — Employment

Lesbians — Employment

Diversity in the workplace

Employee fringe benefits

Sexual orientation

81. Finding Out Homer & Sue Spence

A primer for tolerance

82. A Memoir of when our son came out Robb Forman Dew

83. The children are free : reexamining the Biblical evidence on same-sex relationships Rev. Jeff Miner/John Tyler Connoley

Homosexuality — Religious aspects — Christianity.

Homosexuality in the Bible.

Homosexuality — Biblical teaching.

84. Uncommon heroes : a celebration of heroes and role models for gay and lesbian Americans Phillip Sherman/Samuel Bernstein (Editors)

Gays — Biography.

Lesbians — Biography.

Gay heroes — Biography.

Lesbian heroes — Biography.

85. Norma’s Voice Norma Posy

Transgender memoir (SD PFLAG member)

86. Someone Gay: Memoirs Don Clark, PhD

Clark, Donald H., 1930-

Gay men — United States — Biography.

Gay psychologists — United States — Biography.

Psychologists — United States — Biography.

87.More Tales of the City Armistead Maupin

City and town life — California — San Francisco — Fiction.

San Francisco (Calif.) — Fiction.

88.Further Tales of the City Armistead Maupin

City and town life — California — San Francisco — Fiction.

San Francisco (Calif.) — Fiction.

89.Babycakes Armistead Maupin

City and town life — California — San Francisco — Fiction.

San Francisco (Calif.) — Fiction

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90.Significant Others Armistead Maupin

City and town life — California — San Francisco — Fiction.

San Francisco (Calif.) — Fiction.

The Tales of the city series ; v. 5

91. Crisis : 40 stories revealing the personal, social, and religious pain and trauma of growing up gay in America edited by Mitchele Goldw/Mindy Drucker

SUMMARY A mental health crisis faces American teens right now–and it is one we can solve. Hundreds of thousands of gay teens face traumatic depression, fear, rejection, persecution, and isolation–usually alone. Studies show they are 190% more likely to use drugs or alcohol and four times more likely to attempt suicide. Homophobia and discrimination are at the heart of their pain. Love, support, and acceptance–all within our power to give–can save them. This book is for clergy, parents, educators, and politicians who may not realize the harm their words and actions can cause, as well as for supportive parents of gay teens; teens navigating this difficult time; and fair-minded people who want to help end the harm. Here are revealing stories by forty diverse Americans, plus insights from straight clergy and parents explaining their support of gay people as whole human beings guaranteed equal rights by our Constitution.–From publisher description

SUBJECT(S)

Homosexuality — United States

Gays — United States — Social conditions

Gays — United States — Biography

Gays — United States — Attitudes

Gay teenagers — United States

Gay youth — United States

Homophobia — United States

Coming out (Sexual orientation) — United States

92. Religion gone bad : the hidden dangers of the Christian right Mel White

Homosexuality — Religious aspects — Christianity.

Homosexuality — United States.

Fundamentalism — United States.

Evangelicalism — United States.

93. Oliver Button Is a Sissy Tomie dePaola

SUMMARY His classmates’ taunts don’t stop Oliver Button from doing what he likes best.

Dance — Fiction.

Sex role — Fiction.

Child fiction

PFLAG Library Audio tapes/VHS/DVD

Anyone and Everyone

Summary Connected by having a son or daughter who is gay, parents across the country discuss their experiences … Individuals from such diverse origins as Japanese, Bolivian, and Cherokee; as well as religions such as Mormon, Catholic, Hindus and others share intimate accounts of how their children revealed that they’re homosexual and discuss their responses. The parents also talk about struggling with the pain their sons and daughters have dealt with, such as not being accepted by relatives and/or friends and being ostracized by religious congregations

Parents of gays — United States

Gays — Family relationships — United States

Homosexuality — Religious aspects

Parent and child — United States

Coming out (Sexual orientation)

  1. 1998 Pride Parade

  2. I Just want to say (GLSEN)

  3. The Ties that bind

  4. Before Stonewall-1984

  5. Tales of the city Armistead Maupin 1994

  6. Family Photo

  7. PFLAG Project open mind

  8. I want what I want 97 (transgender)

  9. Gay March (C-SPAN) 93′

  10. Gays in the military (Primetime 1993)

  11. Gay greetings from out here (angels in America…) 60’s

  12. Bubbeh Lee & Me

  13. SD Pride Parade 1995

  14. The truth about Jane

  15. Born in America (Aids)

  16. Not a sin not a sickness (cassette tapes) Bible

  17. Where does a Mother go to Resign (cassette tape)

For the Bible tells me so

SUMMARY Brilliantly reconciles homosexuality and Biblical scripture, and reveals that religious anti-gay bias is based almost solely upon a misinterpretation of the Bible. Through the experiences of five very normal, Christian, American families – including those of former House Majority Leader Richard Gephardt and Episcopal Bishop Gene Robinson – discover how people of faith handle the realization of having a gay child or family member.

Bible — Criticism, interpretation, etc.

Homosexuality — Religious aspects — Christianity.

Bible and homosexuality.

Christian gays — United States.

Christianity — United States.

  1. Twilight of the Golds